How to Stop Being a Clothes Hoarder - Getting My Act Together (2024)

March 22, 2023

How to Stop Being a Clothes Hoarder

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Today I am going to be talking about one of my favorite topics: decluttering your clothes and how to stop being a clothes hoarder!!

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I have a system for organizing clothes that I came up with many years ago. With this system, I never have to “clean out my closet” because it always stays cleaned out.

Oh, and yes, my clothes are still crammed in pretty tight because I do not have a great big walk in closet all to myself. I have a small walk-in closet that I share with my husband.

His clothes actually take up more of the closet than mine do, in my opinion. He might disagree with me though.

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Clothes are one of my favorite things in the world. If I were to hoard anything, this is what it would be. If you find that you have a tendency to keep too many clothes in your closet, and maybe even shoved into every closet in your house, this is for you.

The only Carrie Bradshaw quote I ever cared for: “I like my money where I can see it, hanging in my closet.” (or something like that)

I have a surefire clothing closet and drawers organizing system that will help you stop being a clothes hoarder forever.

Step 1: Watch the video below.

I will write it out, but I explain and show you the whole system in the video. It explains everything.

Step 2: If you haven’t cleaned out your closet in a long time, go through your clothes one by one and pull out anything that is too small, too big, too ugly, or too uncomfortable.

If you never want to wear it, you don’t need it.

Pile all those clothes in a donation bag, and drop them off anywhere that accepts used clothes. If you notice, there are usually donation bins around even in grocery store parking lots to drop off clothes.

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Step 3: Organize your closet into sections.

I divide mine into these sections:

-shirts and casual dresses for the current season

-shirts and casual dresses that are out of season

-jackets and sweaters

-event and church dresses

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We added this drop-down rod to create another section to hang clothes in my little closet.

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Step 4: Time to start your new system: Filing your clothes to the back to keep your clothes constantly rotated.

I explain this in the video more thoroughly.

Basically, every time you hang an item in your closet, file that item to the back of its section. This also helps make sure you don’t just wear the same five items over and over again.

Then when it is time to get dressed, you grab the first appropriate item for the occasion from its section.

You do not have to wear the very front shirt. But it helps you decide what to wear. I hate making decisions, so this is a HUGE reason I do this too.

I look at the front shirt, and if it doesn’t fit what I’m doing that day, I go to the next one, until I find one that is right.

Some days there are still days that NONE of my shirts are right. Ha! Then I just go back to the front and grab the first decent one.

This way you will rotate through all of your clothes. If a shirt spends too much time in the front spot, that is a red flag that you never seem to want or need that shirt. Maybe it is time to hand it off to the donation bag.

Obviously, super fancy clothes will not be needed often. I only own one that still fits, so no rotating required. I just keep it behind the rest of my event/church dresses.

I have been using this system for years, and I love the results of it. This is how I keep a reasonable amount of clothes in my closet instead of drowning in clothes.

Now I know when I see a shirt in front for several days, and I look at it and think, “Nyahhhh Bleh, not that one,” it’s time for that item to go.

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Step 5: Set your drawers up for success too.

I do not do this with all of my clothing types, like pajamas and socks, etc. But maybe I should!

So this is what I do with pants. I have one drawer for winter pants and one drawer for summer pants/shorts/skirts.

I file from left to right. The left is the front, the far right is the back. When I add laundered pants, they go on the last row, and I scoot the others forward.

This works the same way as my closet. I discover which ones I actually never wear because they spend too long hanging out in row one.

Currently, that spot is occupied by my leggings, but I have to keep leggings because when I do need them, nothing else will do.

If a pair is often too tight, I move them to the back row the day that they are snug. Usually, when they come around again, they fit fine. But if they are always tight and miserable, they gotta go.

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Then I have my in-between season pants, pictured here. Most of my shorts are packed and stored under my bed until summer. But these above-ankle length pants will get more space to spread out once I have stored a few of the winter pants away for the summer.

All total, I feel like I do own a lot of pants, but that is because I have finally managed to stay the same pants size for the past seven years. It’s getting iffy lately though….

So in conclusion, I think this is an AWESOME way to manage your inventory of clothes!!

It is so efficient for me. Now I just need to find a system like this for shoes!!

For more organizing and declutter tips, check out my articles on decluttering storage rooms or this one on a compact and safe way to preserve photos and memorabilia.

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FAQs

How to overcome clothes hoarding? ›

I tried my mom's easy 4-step decluttering technique and it finally got me over my clothes hoarding habit
  1. 'Only do it when you're in the right mood' ...
  2. 'Sort your clothes into seasons, then take a deep dive' ...
  3. 'Try your clothes on to ensure they fit and make you feel good' ...
  4. 'Use the reverse coat hanger trick'
Sep 26, 2022

What is the psychological behind hoarding clothes? ›

Hoarding is a severe psychological disorder where a person gathers an excessive number of items and stores them. The reasons someone become a hoarder include altered brain connections, genetics, stress, OCD, environmental factors and altered levels of serotonin.

How to quit being a hoarder? ›

Starting to manage your hoarding
  1. Set yourself small goals. ...
  2. Set a timer and try to tidy one area. ...
  3. Make a plan. ...
  4. Cancel things like magazine subscriptions or put up a 'no junk mail' sign. ...
  5. Come up with some rules. ...
  6. Explore new activities that don't involve buying or saving things.

What are the 5 stages of hoarding? ›

The five stages of hoarding are minimal clutter, mild clutter, moderate clutter, severe clutter, and extreme clutter. Signs of hoarding include acquisition, clutter, difficulty discarding, disorganization, difficulty with decision-making, social isolation and impairment.

How to let go of too many clothes? ›

Store duplicates of favourite items so you can replace the original when needed. Donate anything that doesn't make you feel great, saving some things for messy jobs like painting. Donate or recycle anything that needs mending you are never going to get around to.

How to manage clothes clutter? ›

10 golden rules for decluttering your wardrobe
  1. Schedule a time to declutter. ...
  2. Make things visible. ...
  3. Put it all back in an organised way. ...
  4. Work in categories. ...
  5. Consider what really counts as sentimental. ...
  6. Create a holiday box. ...
  7. Rotate your wardrobe. ...
  8. Store occasion-wear separately.
Jan 30, 2024

What trauma causes hoarding? ›

The experience of two types of childhood trauma (emotional abuse and physical neglect) predicted higher levels of hoarding symptoms. Attachment anxiety and avoidance were positively correlated with hoarding symptoms and with emotional attachment to possessions.

What kind of personality does a hoarder have? ›

In addition to the core features of difficulty discarding and clutter, many people with hoarding disorder also have associated problems such as indecisiveness, perfectionism, procrastination, disorganization and distractibility.

Why do hoarders hoard clothes? ›

Many people who hoard have strongly held beliefs related to acquiring and discarding things, such as: "I may need this someday" or "If I buy this, it will make me happy". Others may be struggling to cope with a stressful life event, such as the death of a loved one.

What should you not say to a hoarder? ›

Use respectful language. Don't refer to their possessions as 'junk' or 'rubbish'. This shows that you don't understand their connection to the objects or why they want to keep them. They will be less likely to open up to you if you talk about their things this way.

What does a level 1 hoarder look like? ›

Indicators include difficulty parting with redundant items, excessive shopping for items already in the home or not needed, accessible stairs, doors, and windows, no noticeable odors in the home, little to no visible clutter on surfaces or in walkways, and sanitation and cleanliness existing within the home.

How to change hoarding behavior? ›

Encourage your loved one to seek treatment and support
  1. Challenge the unhelpful thoughts and beliefs that contribute to their hoarding.
  2. Resist the urges to acquire more possessions.
  3. Improve their decision-making and organizational skills.
  4. Bolster their motivation to declutter.
Feb 5, 2024

What is a level 9 hoarder? ›

The first image is a perfectly tidy space, and each image after has more clutter than the prior. Each photo has a number attached. A clutter image scale 1 means perfectly tidy, and a clutter image scale 9 means severely hoarded to a very dangerous level.

What is a class 3 hoarder? ›

Level 3 hoarding can include the following: Clutter and household items accumulating outside of the home. Two or more household appliances have been in disrepair for six months. One area of the home shows light structural damage. There is an excessive number of pets.

Who is most likely to be a hoarder? ›

Hoarding is more common in older adults than in younger adults. Risk factors include: Personality. Many people who have hoarding disorder have a behavior style that includes trouble making decisions and problems with attention, organization and problem-solving.

What is Diogenes syndrome? ›

Diogenes syndrome (DS) is a behavioral disorder of the elderly. Symptoms include living in extreme squalor, a neglected physical state, and unhygienic conditions. This is accompanied by a self-imposed isolation, the refusal of external help, and a tendency to accumulate unusual objects.

Is hoarding things a mental illness? ›

Contrary to what reality TV portrays, hoarding disorder is a serious—and often dangerous—mental health condition. Hoarding disorder is a mental health condition characterized by saving items that appear to have little or no worth, often accumulating magazines, mail, newspapers, and old clothing.

Do hoarders have personality disorders? ›

Under the DSM-IV, hoarding was listed as a symptom of obsessive–compulsive personality disorder and obsessive–compulsive disorder; however, hoarding was found to have a relatively weak connection to OCD or OCPD compared to their other symptoms.

Is hoarding linked to narcissism? ›

Key points. Narcissists feel empty on the inside and try to fill that emptiness with stuff. Psychologists say that narcissists like nice things for appearance's sake, but the need is deeper than that. People who have a robust sense of self should be less likely to be materialistic or hoarding.

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